Don’t Quit! How to Eliminate Teacher Burnout!

You’re not alone. Teacher burnout is real—and you’re not weak for feeling it. Who needs exercise when you’ve clocked 8,000 steps dodging chaos and managing your classroom? Or maybe you’ve adopted the survivor mindset, wearing your exhaustion like a badge of honor.

If teaching feels heavy right now, you’re not alone. 

That’s exactly why I created the free 6-Step Empowered Planning Guide — a simple framework that helps you save hours each week by planning with intention instead of scrambling from one day to the next.

👉 You can grab it here and start using it this week.

Then there’s that teacher we all envy—organized, composed, seemingly floating through the day. Meanwhile, you’re navigating a battlefield of broken pencils and sticky desks.

But here’s the truth:

Every class can thrive with the right strategies.

Let’s shift your mindset, reduce burnout, and build a classroom where everyone wins. These three strategies transformed my teaching—and you can implement them step by step.

Tiny real-life ritual: I start my day with infused lemon water — nothing fancy, just a small reminder to take care of myself before I take care of everyone else. It’s one of those simple habits that quietly changes the tone of your day.

(If you want to try it, I linked my favorite infuser bottle in this post.)

Key 1: Language Shift — The Foundation of Empowerment

Change your language. Change your classroom culture.

Before routines, rewards, or consequences, there’s language.

The words you use tell students who this classroom belongs to — and what role they’re expected to play in it.

One of the most powerful shifts I teach inside TEN is this:

Stop saying “my room” or “Ms. ___’s classroom.”

That language sounds harmless, but it sends a quiet message: I own this. You’re just visiting.

Instead, try this — and say it out loud on Day 1:

“This classroom is our room.

I’ve designed it to support you, and together we’ll take care of it, improve it, and make it work for everyone.”

That single shift moves students from compliance to ownership.

What This Looks Like in Real Classrooms

When students hear language that invites them in, their behavior changes — not because they’re being managed, but because they’re being trusted.

From the very beginning, invite student voice with questions like:

• “What jobs do you think help a classroom run smoothly?”

• “What responsibilities matter most in a learning community?”

• “What could we do to take better care of our shared space?”

Let students name the roles themselves.

You’ll be surprised by the depth and creativity:

• Gardener instead of Plant Waterer

• Calm Corner Captain instead of Time-Out Monitor

• Materials Manager instead of Supply Helper

These aren’t just cute titles.

They communicate identity, responsibility, and pride.

Why This Works (The TEN Lens)

Inside TEN, we believe students rise to the expectations they’re given — especially when those expectations are communicated through intentional language.

This shift does three things at once:

• Builds student identity

• Increases responsibility

• Reduces power struggles before they start

When students feel like the classroom belongs to them, they protect it.

And when they protect it, you don’t have to manage it as much.

Key 2: Buy-In Bonanza — Where Ownership Takes Root

Once routines are in place, it’s time to move beyond compliance and into true ownership.

This is the moment when students stop asking, “What do you want me to do?”

and start thinking, “How can I contribute?”

Buy-in doesn’t come from assigning jobs.

It comes from inviting students to help design the system.

How to Build Buy-In (Step by Step)

Start by giving students independent thinking time:

• Ask them to list classroom jobs they believe are necessary

• Encourage them to think beyond the obvious

Next, bring the class together:

• Share ideas in a talking circle where every idea is valued

• Record all suggestions — no filtering, no correcting, no eye-rolling

This matters more than it sounds.

When students see their ideas honored publicly, trust begins to form.

Finally, elevate the language:

• Encourage creative, meaningful titles

• Teacher’s Assistant communicates far more responsibility than Paper Passer

• Language signals importance — and students rise to it

Why This Works (The TEN Lens)

Inside TEN, we talk a lot about shifting responsibility to students, not piling more work on teachers.

This process:

• Builds shared responsibility

• Strengthens classroom community

• Reduces resistance because students helped create the system

When students help build it, they’re invested in protecting it.

That’s when the classroom starts to feel different — calmer, more connected, and genuinely collaborative.

Teacher truth: On especially heavy days, I’ve learned to build in a small pause between dismissal and planning. Something as simple as a cup of calming tea  helps me reset before jumping into the next thing. Tiny habits, big impact.

Key 3: Collective Decision-Making — The Power of Voice

Once students have shared ideas, the most important step comes next:

deciding together.

This is where voice turns into responsibility — and where students begin to see themselves as leaders, not just participants.

Instead of assigning roles behind the scenes, bring students into the process openly.

How to Finalize Roles With Students

Guide the class through the decision-making process:

• Use a class vote or a simple Google Form

• Talk through how many students each role actually needs

• Plan for substitutes so responsibilities don’t fall apart when someone is absent

You might say:

“We’ve suggested Plant Waterer, Gardener, and Botanist. Let’s talk about which roles matter most — and then vote.”

This kind of language teaches students how to weigh options, listen to one another, and make decisions as a group.

Once roles are set:

• Create a clear rotation, so every student gets a chance to lead

• Display jobs visually using a magnetic board, chart, or laminated cards

Visibility matters.

When students can see their responsibility, they’re more likely to honor it.

Why This Works (The TEN Lens)

Inside TEN, we emphasize that voice without structure creates chaos — but voice with structure builds leadership.

Collective decision-making:

• Increases accountability

• Reduces “That’s not my job” moments

• Strengthens trust between students and teacher

Students don’t resist systems they helped create.

They protect them.

Pro Tip: Build on the Foundation

After each job cycle, pause and reflect together:

• What worked well?

• What felt challenging?

• Is there a role missing that would help our classroom run better?

Invite students to write short job descriptions or present ideas for improving roles.

This simple reflection turns classroom jobs into a living system — one that grows alongside your students and deepens their sense of ownership.

Want the exact teacher language that makes these conversations calm, clear, and productive?

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Teacher truth: After high-energy days, I’ve learned how important it is to reset my nervous system before heading home. Magnesium has been one small habit that’s helped me unwind and show up better the next day.

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Start small. Change your language.

That one shift leads to:

• More student respect

• More ownership

• More calm—for them and for you

Your classroom can thrive.

You can breathe easier.

And together, we can change what teaching feels like.

One last small joy: a really good hand lotion at my desk. Tiny ritual. Big grounding energy. If you don't take care of yourself who will? As the old saying goes...

About Sarah Legault

Sarah Legault is a former classroom teacher and instructional coach with more than two decades of experience. After navigating her own seasons of frustration and burnout, she built the Teachers Empowerment Network to help educators create sustainable systems, reclaim balance, and fall back in love with teaching—while empowering students to rise, lead, and thrive.